Some overzealous locking to track down RequestObject related crashes.
bc0fa4d689 wrongly locked the current event loop's
request_invalidation_lock instead of the invalidation's list lock.
Also Abstract UI is able to delete requests concurrently with with
EventLoop invalidation.
e.g. PortManager::PortRegisteredOrUnregistered and GlobalPortMatrixWindow
so the lock needs to be exposed.
If this solves various issues, mutexes should to be consolidated
(request_buffer_map_lock + request_invalidation_lock) and be chosen
such that there is as little contention as possible.
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